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The
wedding plan!
The
Flowers
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When
discussing floral arrangements with your florist, consider the style and
mood of your wedding, the season or environment, your budget and what
you like.
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You
need to have selected your gown, the bridesmaids' dresses and the color
theme of your wedding before visiting your florist. It is also helpful
to have fabric swatches and textures of your selected gowns and the
attire of the groom and his attendants. The florist will then be able to
suggest floral combinations and artistic treatments to create beautiful
floral complements for your wedding.
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Ask
the florist for an itemized bill in advance and supply your florist with
the names, addresses and times for delivery of your bouquet, boutonnieres,
corsages and floral arrangements.
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Other
floral pieces that you will need include displays for the altar,
centerpieces for reception tables, spray for candelabra, corsages for
those who assist with various reception duties and floral
"tokens" for special guests. To preserve your flowers as a
keepsake and not just a faded memory of your day, you should consider
floral preservation.
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Flowers
Checklist
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Select
florist 4-6 months before wedding
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Decide
if you will have fresh, silk or dried flowers
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Sign
agreement, pay deposit
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Bring
swatches/pictures of your dress, attendants' dresses and mothers'
dresses to match colors.
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Select
flowers for:
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Bride's
bouquet
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Attendants'
bouquets
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Flowers
fore helpers
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flower
girl's basket
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Corsages
for mothers, grandmothers
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Groom
and Ushers' boutonnieres
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Boutonnieres
for fathers, grandfathers
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Floral
decorations for ceremony
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Floral
decorations for reception
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Give
florist names, addresses and times for delivery of floral bouquets,
boutonnieres, and arrangements
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Pay
balance
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Who
pays for what?
The
following is the traditional division for wedding expenses. Today, there
are no rules in regards to financial responsibilities. The question
these days of who pays for what really boils down to who is most willing
and able. It may be the bride and groom or either of their families. The
key is to communicate and be realistic and courteous.
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Bride
and her Family
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Groom
and his Family
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Wedding
Gift for Groom
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Wedding
Ring for Groom
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Gifts for
Attendants
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Personal
Stationery
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Lodging for
Out-of Town Attendants
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Bridesmaids'
Luncheon
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Reception
Food & Drink
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Bride's
Wedding Attire & Trousseau
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Invitations,
Announcements & Postage
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Engagement&
Wedding Photographs
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Rental of
Sanctuary of Chapel
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Organist,
Soloist and Sexton Fees
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Aisle
Carpets and / or Canopy, and any Additional Decorating Costs
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Bridesmaids'
Bouquets
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Transportation
for Bridal Party to Ceremony & Reception
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Bridal
Consultant
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Music
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Videography
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Wedding
Cake
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Wedding
Gift for Bride
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Bride's
Wedding & Engagement Ring
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Marriage
License
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Gifts for
Best Man, Ushers
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Bridal
Bouquet and Going Away Corsage
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Boutonnieres
for All Man in Wedding Party
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Mother's
Corsages
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Lodging for
Out-of Town Attendants
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Fee for
Clergy or Judge
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Honeymoon
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Rehearsal
Dinner
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Shipment of
Wedding Gifts to the Bridal Couple's New Home
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Groom's
Formalwear & Accessories
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The
Wedding Reception
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When
choosing your reception site, consider whether the facility is large
enough to accommodate your guest list. If you’ll have dancing, is
there room for a dance floor?
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Get
everything in writing. Will the reception site provide linens, table
skirting, microphone and/or microphone hook-ups, napkins, dance
floor, table centerpieces, etc.
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The
menu for your reception can be as simple as cake and punch or as
elaborate as a formal dinner. You also have a choice of offering an
Hors D’Oeuvres or a Buffet reception. All options depend on the
degree of formality, time of day, and your budget.
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Consider
some of the following special touches that you may want to add to
your reception. An ice sculpture for your buffet table, a balloon
arch for a dramatic entry and personalized candy favors for your
guests as mementos.
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Some
of your guests may be health conscious. Try to offer some fresh,
low-fat selections in addition to the richer fare. Choosing in
season foods will be easier on your budget.
The
Reception Checklist
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- Reserve site
- Sign agreement and pay deposit
- Decide style, theme,
decorations
- Hire a caterer
- Plan menu
- Determine if alcohol will be
served. If so, will it be open bar, limited bar or cash bar?
- Determine sequence of events
with your DJ, band or Master of Ceremonies
- Select someone to be the guest
book attendant
- Determine seating assignments
- Order or make favors for guests
- Give final guest count to
reception site or caterer
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The
Wedding Ceremony
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The Ceremony is what
will take you from being an engaged couple to being a married couple.
Therefore, the place you choose for your ceremony can be as unique as
the two of you. It could be a church, cathedral, chapel or temple.
Other choices include a hall, country club, hotel, restaurant, garden,
your home, or judge’s chambers. The ceremony site should have some
special significance for you both. Whichever site you choose, it
should be able to comfortably accommodate the number of guests you
plan to invite.
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When choosing a date,
consider weather conditions, family commitments and local special
events and celebrations.
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If you will be
married by a member of the clergy, be sure to contact him or her early
to discuss how your own special wishes can be combined with ceremonial
rites to make your ceremony personal and meaningful to you and your fiancé.
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Be sure to ask about
the facility’s wedding policies. Many churches and other sites where
weddings regularly occur may provide you with a wedding policy
booklet. If there are any restrictions in regards to decorations,
music, photography, or videography, be sure to let your wedding
vendors know.
The
Ceremony Checklist
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Determine
the level of formality
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Select
and reserve ceremony site
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Select
an officiant and plan ceremony
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Inquire
about restrictions and notify appropriate vendors
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Attend
pre-marital classes
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Select
attendants
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Hire
organist, vocalist or other musicians for ceremony music
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Select
music
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Write
vows
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Reserve
rental items:
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Candelabra
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Kneeler
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Aisle
Runner
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The
Cake Checklist
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Select
baker 3-6 months in advance
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Choose
shape, size, flavor, filling, icing, decorations for wedding cake
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Order
groom's cake
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Provide
bakery with delivery information ( date, time, location)
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Pay
deposit
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Purchase
cake knife and server
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Assign
someone to be responsible for getting cake knife, server and cake
topper to the bakery or reception site
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Determine
who will be cutting the cake at the reception
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Pay
balance
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Arrange
for someone to take the top of the cake home after the reception and
preserve it for you
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Assign
someone to return cake stands and pillars to the bakery
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Jewelry
- Deal with reputable jewelers only
and request a written guarantee indicating the value of the stone.
- Choose gold settings and bands that
are 14k or 18k gold, 24k gold is too soft for rings.
- The hardest ring metal is platinum.
It is used as prongs in settings and is slightly more expensive.
- Discuss prices on guarantees,
exchanges and trading up later to larger stones with your jeweler.
- Make sure your ring is covered by
your insurance policy.
- Take advantage of the free ring
cleanings that many jewelers offer to keep your ring looking its best.
- Have your settings routinely
checked by your jeweler to make sure prongs are snug.
Jewelry
checklist
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- Order Wedding Bands 3 Months
Before the Wedding
- Arrange Engraving for Wedding
Bands
- Give Bride’s Ring to Best Man
to Hold at Ceremony
- Give Groom’s Ring to Maid of
Honor to Hold at Ceremony
- Purchase Accessory Jewelry for
Wedding Day - Necklace, Earrings, Etc.
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Music
& Entertainment
- It has been said time and time
again that music can make or break a party. When choosing your
entertainment, consider the style of your wedding and reception. There
are many different options, including DJ’s, live bands, and
soloists.
- Regardless of what type of
entertainment you choose, make sure they are experienced, professional
and that they have earned your trust and confidence to make your
wedding day special.
- They should be able to provide
references and/or a video of their performance.
- Your entertainment should also be
able to provide: Back up Equipment, Copy of their Insurance, Written
Contract Specifying Time of Performance, and their Rates
Music /
Entertainment Checklist
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- Determine if you will hire a band
or a DJ
- Check with reception site for any
music restrictions
- Select band or DJ, sign agreement
and pay deposit
- Will the band or DJ provide any
special effects? If so, include these in the agreement
- Inform band or DJ of date, time
and location of reception
- Inquire if the band or DJ has any
special needs (electrical, space, etc). Help to coordinate this with
the reception site
- Make music selections
- Determine sequence of events with
band leader or DJ. Will they act as Master of Ceremonies?
- Pay balance
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Invitations
& Accessories
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Your wedding
invitation is the first item your guests will see about your wedding.
It gives your guests an idea as to the type and formality of your
wedding.
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Invitations may be
printed or engraved. They should be mailed 4-6 weeks before your
wedding date. For informal weddings, invitations are mailed ten days
prior.
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When ordering
invitations, order 25 more than you think you will need. It’s
cheaper to order more in advance than ordering a small quantity at a
later date. Also, order extra envelopes for mistakes.
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Invitations and
announcements should be handwritten in black or blue ink. Both
envelopes should be in the same handwriting. You may want to consider
calligraphy. It creates a very elegant look for your invitations.
Computerized calligraphy is also available through some invitation
stores.
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Children’s names
should be listed on the inside envelope on the second line. Never use
“and Family” on the envelope. The rule is, if children are not
listed on the envelope, they are not invited. Any children over the
age of 18 receive their own invitation.
Invitations/Accessories
Checklist
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Finalize
guest list and determine number of invitations to order
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Order
invitations three to four months before the wedding
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Determine
if you want engraved or thermographed invitations. Engraved
invitations take six to eight weeks to order
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Select
paper, script, ink color, wording and format for:
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Invitations |
Wedding Programs |
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Enclosures |
Response cards |
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Announcements |
Thank You notes |
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Reception cards |
Place cards |
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Pew cards |
Maps |
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Personalized napkins
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Matchbooks |
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Compile
names and addresses of guests as soon as possible
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Double
check all spellings, dates and addresses on your order
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If
necessary, design and print maps to assist guests
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Carefully
examine your order for accuracy prior to leaving the store
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Address
and assemble invitations
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Take
finished invitations to post office and have them weighed to
determine the correct postage
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Mail
invitations 4-6 weeks prior to your wedding
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Mail
announcements on day of wedding
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Transportation
- Decide type of transportation
desired
- Select transportation provider,
sign agreement, pay deposit
- Provide dates, times, locations,
and who is to be picked up
- Arrange transportation for
out-of-town guests
- Will you want to decorate the limo
or other vehicle? Ask about their restrictions
- Pay balance and gratuities
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Photography
- Select photographer
- Sign agreement and pay deposit
- Inform photographer of date,
time, location of wedding and reception
- Schedule sitting for engagement
portrait
- Schedule sitting for bridal
portrait
- Schedule make-up and hair
appointments for bridal portrait
- Notify photographer of any
restrictions the ceremony site and/or reception site has in
regards to photography
- Decide if you will have formal
wedding pictures done before or after the ceremony. Inform the
bridal party
- Give photographer a list of
photos you’d like taken
- Notify photographer the sequence
of events for the reception
- Pay balance
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Videography
- Select videographer
- Sign agreement, pay deposit
- Inform videographer of date,
time, location of wedding and reception
- Inform videographer of any
restrictions the ceremony site and/or reception site has in regards
to videography
- Inform the videographer of
sequence of events for the reception
- Pay balance
- Give videographer any special
music you would like included on your video (if you are purchasing
an edited tape)
- If your video will include photos
of you both as children, give these to your videographer (again, if
you are purchasing an edited tape)
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702/868-5520; fax:
702/868-5512
Las
Vegas Bouquet, full service
florist delivering the freshest flowers to you or someone special.
Las
Vegas Bouquet®
1815
W. Charleston Blvd. Suite 6,
Las
Vegas, Nevada 89102, USA
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